It’s MINDSET FRIDAY

You will see people go into the weekend mode, party hard or shutdown. Maybe that’s you.

Let me ask you a couple of questions,

Is the party mindset a celebration of how you made it to the end of a boring and soul destroying week ?

Or

Do you go into shutdown mode to rest from the physical and mental tedium of your work?

You can comment or not, it’s kind of a time to ponder on what it is we are doing with our life!

I have worked with loads of men over the years and most of the limitations they where facing had something to do with the job they had, the career path they had chosen.

I call it misalignment, I have been there for sure. I have however been brutal in my execution of businesses I had that didnt light me up. In otherwords I was tuned in to my own feelings and realised that if what I did every day didn’t give me happiness… I had to find what did.

The main argument I hear about change is that people become a self shackled slave to the money or/ and the prestige of a title. The question I ask is, ‘ does the money, title, social standing and so on give you happiness’ ?

Of course these things can help you achieve a happy life balance, but this can be a problem. If there is no balance we become misaligned and we may work toward one of the two options for our weekend listed above.

If you have all the money in the world and hate yourself because your life is based on what you can buy instead of what you can give or you work in a job that steals your time and pays you less than you deserve, there is no fulfilment, no happiness.

What’s the secret to being aligned then ?

My experience is you can hold on to something that you are afraid to let go o, you can sacrifice the time your family deserves, you can put your own dreams on hold and you can drive that thing into the ground and just crash and burn.

If your lucky you climb out of the wreckage like I did and you say from now on I will only do things that will align me to my core values and beliefs.

Next week I’ll hit you with how to establish bullet proof values and core beliefs and discard the limiting shit that pollutes our mind.